One of the most challenging aspects of caring for a senior loved one with Alzheimer’s is addressing aggressive behavior. Though Alzheimer’s affects everyone differently, even the most mild-mannered senior may become combative at times. Knowing how to handle this aggression can help as you care for your aging loved one.
1. Know the Importance of Staying Calm
When your loved one acts aggressively, stay calm. Raising your voice and letting your temper get out of control will just escalate the situation. Take a deep breath, count to ten, and then calmly respond to your loved one’s outburst. If you don’t think you can respond patiently, make sure your loved one is in a safe location and walk away until you feel like you’re in control once more.
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2. Learn Different Techniques for Handling Aggression
Many different techniques can be used to calm your loved one. Some of them may work better than others, and it might take some trial and error until you learn which ones work best for you. You can try some of these techniques:
- Remove the trigger – You may notice your loved one becomes aggressive at certain times of day, when he or she is hungry, or if there are a lot of lights and loud noises around him or her. Figure out the triggers and remove or avoid them as much as possible.
- Try reasoning – It’s okay to take a few minutes to try and reason with your loved one. However, this may not work if he or she is very upset.
- Use diversions – If your loved one can’t be reasoned with, try diverting his or her attention. Switch to another activity, change the environment, or begin a new conversation that may grab your loved one’s interest.
- Offer gentle touches – A gentle touch may reassure your loved one if he or she feels scared or anxious.
- Validate emotions – Don’t tell your loved one he or she isn’t feeling a certain way. Instead, validate your loved one’s feelings, agree with him or her, and think of a solution that works for both of you.
3. Be Prepared for Sudden Changes
Everything may be fine one minute, and then your loved one may begin acting out. Aggressive behavior may begin suddenly and without warning, which most often occurs during the later stages of Alzheimer’s. If this happens, take a deep breath, check for any irritants, and be patient.
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4. Remember It’s Not You
When your loved one is screaming at you and telling you how much he or she hates you, it may be difficult not to take it personally. Remember this isn’t your loved one telling you these things. It’s the disease that’s causing this behavior. It’s not indicative of your relationship or your past with your loved one.
5. Get Help
It’s okay to ask for help. Call on family members, close friends, and professional caregivers for assistance if handling your loved one’s aggressiveness becomes too much. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness but of love because you want the best care possible for your loved one.
Symptoms such as agitation, confusion, anger, and frustration are common in elderly people with Alzheimer’s. The days, weeks, and months following an Alzheimer’s diagnosis can be challenging for both seniors and their families. However, these challenges can be made less stressful with the help of caregivers trained in professional Alzheimer’s care. Centennial Home Care Assistance is here to help your loved one enjoy the golden years while simultaneously managing the symptoms of Alzheimer’s. To learn about our premier in-home care plans and how they can help your loved one, give us a call at (303) 957-3100 today.